I have never been very strong. Even when I was working out with Jesse, my personal trainer in Texas (He was so beautiful that I actually got at 5 am to workout), it took 3 months before I could bench press the bar without help. I can't change a tire. I can't lift either of dogs. I have trouble with doors to my building. I have always been able to think my way around my lack of strength, so it does not bother me. Besides, what would men do, if not lift heavy things? They need to feel needed too. That is why I am trying not let it bother me that I was so easily defeated in the DBA Arm Wrestling Competition at work this afternoon. We really do work hard.